Fremveksten av SheEconomy
Onsdag, 01. februar 2012 11:37

Kvinner blir stadig mektigere – både som forbrukere og som arbeidstakere. Derfor er den bedrift som ikke forstår kvinners behov, dømt til å mislykkes.

«GLOBALT VIL KVINNERS VOKSENDE ØKONOMISKE MAKT FORANDRE MÅTEN VI TENKER BUSINESS PÅ FOR ALLTID»

Kvinner utdanner seg som aldri før og er nå i flertall ved stadig flere høyere utdanninger.
Samtidig er det kvinner som er ansvarlige for de fleste beslutninger når familiene bestemmer hva deres penger skal brukes.
I USA står kvinner for om lag 85 prosent av alle innkjøp, og i Danmark står den kvinnelige befolkningen for omtrent 80 prosent av privatforbruket.

Nye tall fra USA viser at kvinner ikke bare dominerer som kunder, de har også innhentet mennene i lønn og samlet inntekt.
I oktober 2009 kunne den amerikanske arbeidsmarkedsetaten meddele at 51,5 prosent av alle stillinger i gruppen «svært godt betalte mellomledere» nå var besatt av kvinner, og kvinner står samtidig bak 51,3 prosent av den samlede formue i USA.

Time magazine presenterte for noen måneder siden et omfattende tema om den nye, såkalte sheEconomy. Magasinet henviser til en analyse av konsulentfirma Reach Advisors, som viser at unge karrierekvinner i USAs storbyer for første gang har gått forbi sine unge, mannlige kolleger når det gjelder inntjening. I 147 av USAs 150 største byer tjener kvinner i gjennomsnitt åtte prosent mer enn sine mannlige motstykker. I New York er tallet så mye som 17 prosent.

Utdanning er nøkkelen
Hva ligger bak denne enorme sosioøkonomiske endringen?
Ifølge Time ligger svaret i utdanningsmønsteret. Kvinnene er i flertall ved amerikanske universiteter, og for hver andre mann som gjennomfører en høyere utdanning, er det tre kvinner som avslutter sine studier. Kvinners forsprang får ekstra slagkraft i fremtiden fordi kunnskapsøkonomien som krever høy utdanning, utgjør en stadig voksende del av bruttonasjonalproduktet (BNP), mens jobber i den industrielle sektor eller i jordbruket får stadig mindre betydning. Dette kan leses direkte ut av det amerikanske arbeidsdepartementets statistikker, som viser at ni av de ti bransjene som vil vokse mest det neste tiåret, har flest kvinnelige studenter og nyutdannede.

Utviklingen påberoper en naturlig interesse for kjønn i virksomhetene, både i form av reklamekampanjer rettet mot kvinnelige kunder, og når det gjelder rekruttering av fremtidige ledere. Kvinner er med andre ord motoren for vekst.

Men hvordan utnytter vi dette?
Oppgaven er både enkel og vanskelig: Vi må lære å tenke i kvinners behov og ønsker – både i hverdagen og i selskapets strategi. Bare slik kan virksomheten fortsette å tiltrekke seg kvinner som kunnskapsarbeidere, ledere og velstående forbrukere.

Kvinner blir stadig mer velstående og dermed også viktigere som kunder. Noen store bedrifter har allerede innsett at kvinner er big business, og er i forkant av denne revolusjonen. McDonald’s, Kodak, Volvo og Irma er alle i full sving med å endre måten de kommuniserer og markedsfører seg på til dagens mektige forbrukere – kvinner! Og de smarte gutta i klassen tenker ikke rosa – de tenker som en kvinne, og tjener penger BIG TIME!

Det er på tide at også norske selskaper innser at det lønner seg å glede og sjarmere kvinnene – også de over 40. Amerikanske kvinner står i dag for omlag 80 prosent av alle kjøpsbeslutninger. I kjøpekraft er de gode for 7 billioner dollar, og innen 2010 vil de kontrollere mer enn 13 billioner i privat rikdom. Og dette er bare amerikanske data. Globalt vil kvinners voksende økonomiske makt forandre måten vi tenker business på for alltid.

Selv om det fortsatt er mannen som tar med hjem den største lønnsslippen, er det først og fremst kvinnene som har spanderbuksene på. Og ikke bare når familien skal handle melk, brød og smør, men når den skal kjøpe ny bil, nytt hus og ny TV. Kvinner er familienes innkjøpssjefer. Kvinner blir stadig mer kjøpesterke kunder. Det gjør damene til en svært interessant motor for vekst i norsk industri både som ansatte, kunder og ledere.

Kjøpesterke damer
Fremtiden tilhører kvinnene, og det vil påvirke deg, enten du er mann eller kvinne, leder eller ansatt, bedrift eller kunde. Det er derfor på høy tid at alt fra kjøpesentre til bensinstasjoner og treningssentre innser at det er big business å møte kvinners heteste drømmer. Og her snakker vi ikke bare ønsket om en fin, ny frisyre eller et par jeans som sitter fint på kroppen.

Det er nødvendig at den norske virksomheten lærer å tenke som en kvinne, omtrent som den kjekke filmhelten i Mel Gibsons film Det kvinner vil ha. Her spiller Mel Gibson en reklamemann som kan lese kvinners tanker og dermed tilfredsstille deres dypeste lengsler. Mange husker kanskje den festlige scenen der Mel Gibson prøver seg på hårfjerning og brøler som en mannlig løve når han fjerner hårene på leggen med voks.

Det er ved å gå opp det norske næringslivet at kvinner spiller en avgjørende rolle i bedriftenes salg og bunnlinje, og dermed går vi kvinner en skjønn tid i møte. Det er slutt på de dagene da medier, annonsører og produktutviklere hadde råd til å gjøre kvinner usynlige etter fylte 40 år. Dersom noen er i tvil, kan man(n) bare lese de talende tallene: kvinner 40+ har penger, sjarm og selvtillit. De har en lommebok som er tyngre enn noen gang tidligere, og de stemmer med deres 100-kronerssedler. De bedrifter som forstår å varte opp kvinnene, får sine penger mangedobbelt tilbake.

For mange menn av den gamle skolen kan det virke som en omveltning at de nå skal til å behage kvinner – også de med grå hår. Men de smarte er i ferd med å innse hvor viktig kvinner er for deres suksess.
Blant annet har den danske IRMA-direktøren, Alfred Josefsen (Danmarks svar på Stein Erik Hagen), denne høsten publisert en reklameavis for og av kvinner. Det er uttrykk for innovasjon i en bransje som tradisjonelt bare spytter ut den ene tilbudsavisen etter den andre.

Dette vil kvinnene ha
En studie utført av The Boston Consulting Group i 2009 (som følges opp med Nordiske data i Benja sin neste bok: ”Think like a women, Gyldendal Business Danmark) viser at det er mye som må gjøres når virksomheten skal prøve å flørte med kvinner.

For kvinner har så mange udekkede behov:
■ Mange kvinner mangler tid og føler at buen er strukket til bristepunktet i kampen for å få jobb og familie til å holde sammen. Kvinner trenger et løft for å få en enklere hverdag. Tidlig revolusjonerte vaskemaskinen, støvsugeren og tørketrommelen hjemmene. Hva blir det neste må-ha i alle norske hjem? Hva kan gjøre kvinners liv betydelig enklere?
■ Kvinner fokuserer på helse. Ikke bare deres egen helse, men hele familiens. Derfor ligger det en gullgruve i å utvikle produkter og alternativer som gjør det lettere for kvinner og deres familier å leve sunt.
■ Kvinner er opptatt av miljø. Derfor kan norske virksomheter tjene masse penger på miljøvennlige produkter som kvinner kan kjøpe til seg selv og sine familier med god samvittighet.
■ Kvinner vil ha en trygg alderdom, og slik det står til i dag halter kvinner etter med pensjonsoppsparingen.
Derfor er det på høy tid å tenke på en sikker alderdom for kvinner. Her kan både forsikringsselskaper og politikere vinne kvinnehjerter.
■ Kvinner vil ha service. Kvinner vil føle seg viktige, så for å bruke enda et filmbilde, tenk da på Richard Gere i Pretty Woman når han eskorterer Julia Roberts inn i butikken der tørre og triste ekspeditriser har behandlet henne som det verste avskum, og Richard Gere sier til dem at de må tilfredsstille alle hennes behov dersom det skal klinge i kassen.

Alle må derfor spørre seg selv: Hva vil en kvinne ha når hun er 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 eller 90 år?
Det er morgendagens million-dollar spørsmål.

Fakta – ikke idealisme
Jeg skulle ønske at vi kunne komme bort fra moraldebatter, og i stedet diskutere forretningspotensial og markedsmuligheter. Kvinner er ganske enkelt en veldig god investering, som jeg uttalte i et intervju om sheeconomy i The Independent, for womenomics handler ikke om kjønn, men om økonomi. Om statistikk. Om tørre fakta. I fremtiden trenger vi derfor et nytt fokus. Bedrifter må bli mye bedre til å forstå kvinners behov, ønsker og ambisjoner, og kommunisere med dem.
Vi kan se fra utlandet at dette virkelig blir et viktig spesialfelt, og at det finnes kunder for det. Dette dreier seg ikke om feminisme eller idealisme.
Alle vet at dette er ren business. Et viktig kodeord, som naturligvis kan tolkes på mange måter, er innsikt i sine målgrupper. Det må være følelser og autentisitet, og det er de riktige kvinnene som skal ha tak i budskapet og deretter sende det videre til andre kvinner. Men langt ifra alle virksomheter er gode til å designe strategier som er rettet mot den moderne kvinne.

Rosa, nei takk!
I et tidligere nummer av Time har reporter Belinda Luscombe gjennomgått flere eksempler både på bedrifter som har feilet i markedet, og bedrifter som har lyktes. Læresetningen er generelt at kvinner ikke tenner på en bestemte jenteuniverser. Eller sagt på en annen måte: Hvis markedsføringen blir alt for rosa eller bablende snakkesalig, så får du ikke kvinnene på kroken.
Datagiganten Dell brukes som eksempel. Firmaet lanserte i mai 2009 sitt Della-nettsted med drømmende scener i myke fargetoner og tilbud om oppskrifter og kaloritellere online. Etter bare 10 dager hadde selskapet fått så mye kritikk online at datagiganten stengte hele hjemmesiden.

Jeg holdt foredrag om ”Primetime women” sammen med den amerikanske marketing guru, Marti Barletta, som betegnes som grunnleggeren av begrepet sheeconomy, og som har skrevet tre bøker om fenomenet og som deltar i min neste bok ”Think like a women!”. Hun fortalte meg at det er en stor feil å tro at kvinner går for varme og hygge når de tar økonomiske beslutninger: «De vil ha de samme tingene som menn og litt til. Hvis man ønsker å appellere til kvinner, må endringene både i stil, innhold og måten et selskap kjører på, være langt mer grunnleggende. “Jeg mener kvinner har bedre teft for tidsånden enn det menn har.” uttaler toppsjef i Marimekko Mika Ihamuotila i et intervju med Dagens Næringsliv tidligere denne uken.
Kvinner har en mer helhetlig tilnærming til beslutningstaking. Menn er mer fokusert. Forstå en mann og du kan selge én ting. Forstå en kvinne og du har sikret deg en kunde for framtiden.»

Her kommer de sosiale nettverkene for alvor inn i bedriftens image som et uunnværlig verktøy for fremtidig salgsfremmende tiltak.

PR i sosiale nettverk
Anvendt på riktig måte, kan nettverk som Twitter og Facebook både brukes til å ødelegge et produkt – gjennom latterliggjøring som sprer seg lynraskt – eller til å bli et springbrett for suksess.

62 prosent av alt som er delt mellom 500 millioner mennesker på Facebook, deles av kvinner. Det har flere bedrifter måttet erkjenne. Selskapet Johnson & Johnson måtte for eksempel stoppe en kampanje i 2008 for de smerte stillende barnedråpene Motrin, etter at selskapet ble latterliggjort på Twitter for hva mange kvinner anså som en sexistisk reklame.

Motsatt har Old Spice hatt stor suksess med den deilige handymannen Mustafa, som har spredt seg på både YouTube og Facebook som ild i tørt gress den siste måneden, der hundretusener av kvinner har ledd av den ironiske reklamen som gjør rått narr av kjønnsstereotypiene. Resultatet har vært påfallende. Etter Mustafas virtuelle triumf, vokste salget av Old Spice dusjsåpe med 27 prosent på seks måneder. Som Luscombe konkluderer i Times-artikkelen: Alt dette i et klima der kvinner fortsatt bare sitter på toppen i tre prosent av selskapene på Fortunes liste over verdens 500 ledende selskaper. Det er et stort løft som må til, selv om harde fakta tyder på at selskapene ville gjøre det bedre hvis kvinner var med i toppledelsen.

Men hvis det ikke lykkes for fremtidens kvinner å bryte seg inn i bedriftenes helligste (ledelse og styre), vil de rett og slett ende opp med å styre selskaper utenfra, som mektige kunder som stemmer og bestemmer med deres pengesedler.
Det er der pengene og makten ligger.

Høsten 2012 utkommer Benja med sin neste bok: ”Think like a woman!”, Gyldendal Business, Danmark.

 
Busting More Myths About Women in the Workplace
Fredag, 13. januar 2012 09:17

More Myths About Women in the Workplace...
Do women lack ambition? Not on your life.

Only days into 2012, I took to Forbes, The Huffington Post, and analyzed to debunk the persistent myth that women are not as ambitious as men, Nancy M. Carter, Senior Vice President, Research, and Christine Silva, Senior Director, Research, followed suit in the Washington Post, exploding the myth that women don't ask for pay raises and promotions. Their articles garnered wide recognition across the blogosphere.
Ilene issued a call to action: "Organizations need to step up and clear a path for women's success," she wrote. "Women are ambitious," she added, "but systemic barriers in the workplace mean that ambition, even when coupled with talent, isn't always enough." And in their Washington Post article—the first of a three part series—Nancy and Christine said that Catalyst research "reinforces one core finding: gender gap can't be explained away by women's preferences or actions. It's time for companies to find, and fix, bias in the system."

Be sure to visit the Washington Post's On Leadership section next week for the latest in Catalyst series tackling workplace myths.

Women want to succeed, yet even when they do “all the right things” Catalyst has found that they earn less and progress more slowly than men. The fact that some women adjust their career advancement strategies after crashing into institutional barriers is a rational response to inhospitable workplaces. It is not an example of a lack of ambition.

Catalyst has been studying women’s ambition for nearly a decade. Our 2004 report, Women and Men in U.S. Corporate Leadership, surveyed nearly 1000 senior-level employees who shared similar backgrounds and characteristics. We found that women aspired to be CEO in equal proportions as men. But the women—to a much greater extent than men—ran up against barriers, namely exclusion from informal networks, stereotyping, and a lack of role models. Likewise, our report, Leaders in a Global Economy, found that women and men have similar work values. The problem is this: men find workplaces more aligned with their values, women don’t.

What’s changed since 2004? Not much—women remain ambitious, but barriers still block their paths. And with few exceptions, women’s leadership is stalled in corporate America.

The Myth of the Ideal Worker, the latest report in our series on high potential employees, examined the career advancement strategies of thousands of MBA graduates from top schools around the world and the impact of these strategies on their careers. Women and men were equally represented in the two most proactive groups, indicating that ambition ran high among both genders. But being proactive paid off more in promotions and pay for the men.

In Pipeline’s Broken Promise, we found that among MBA grads who aspired to be CEO or senior executives, women progressed more slowly than men. And parenthood, industry, and previous experience didn’t explain the gender gap. The leadership and pay gaps balloon over time, suggesting that the problem lies with the system, not the women.

So what is the problem? Cascading Gender Biases, Compounding Effects revealed how gender biases are unintentionally embedded in talent management systems—biases that exclude those who don’t fit the male leadership model. Addressing these biases and rooting them out at the source are better ways to tackle inequality than blaming the women. Smart organizations are proactively addressing the barriers women face and are reaping the rewards.

Catalyst´s research has pointed to one more powerful solution: sponsorship. Sponsors advocate for you from behind closed doors and ensure you’re visible when opportunities arise. The problem is that many women are over-mentored and under-sponsored. Some companies are recognizing this and are instituting formal sponsorship programs for women. At the same time, individuals are taking the lead on this front without waiting for a formal program to kick in by actively seeking sponsorship and being a sponsor to others, especially talented women who deserve it. This is one proven way to help narrow gender gaps.

The misguided assumption that women are less ambitious than men puts companies at risk of inadvertently underutilizing talented women and overlooking, or outright dismissing them, for key roles. This is a real loss for companies. Organizations need to step up and clear a path for women’s success.

Women are ambitious. But systemic barriers in the workplace mean that ambition, even when coupled with talent, isn’t always enough.

Source: Catalyst

 
Hi, “There’s a special place in Hell for women who don’t help each other”– can I get you to do stuff for me for free? Posted on 21. november 2011
Torsdag, 12. januar 2012 17:30

The day before yesterday it happened again. I received an e-mail that just oozed with “a lot of work – but no pay”. It didn’t explicit mention it, but the mail wanted me to do a speaking gig, which they said, just was a speech “around 20-30 minutes” and that the theme was WOMENOMICS and WHY WOMEN MEAN BUSINESS.

In addition, I receive daily inquiries from women who are seeking new job opportunities, board positions or directorships.
Almost every mail, starts by quoting Madeleine Albright’s famous comment; “There’s a special place in Hell for women who don’t help each other”. In other cases the mails appeals to “sister loyalty”, understating that “someone like me” obviously have to help and support all women at all time and, of course, without getting paid! Their expectations are clear – in their minds this has to be expected of a feminist (like me).

I get dizzy and confused.

Of course I want to be good a “feminist- sister” and if I could – help and preferably also save the world for free.
But I – like many others- also take care of my company, my family and my network.

So, how do I do this while ensuring that I do not end up as Madeleine Albrights quote ends? … Burn in hell?

A couple of years ago, I made a promise to myself that I didn’t wanted to work for free for anybody – men or women. Not even if it just was for “20-30 minutes.”

Here’s my working process when it comes to speaking on gigs or doing consulting work:

1 – I need to make sure that I deliver real value, and that my ambitions motivates me to work really hard to exceed above target to the clients and audience who pays for my services.

2 - I need to use a couple of hours to practice, because I want to perform 110% when doing speeches and workshops.

3 - Further, I need to make the whole look nice and communicate well – oh, and use a lot of time and some tranquility moments on getting grounded and get in the right mood for delivering value when on stage.

4 - If my co-sisters want me to sell various courses or goddess schools, it is impossible for me to spam my network daily with e-mails describing the fantastic USP’s of the various courses, whatever the good intentions are… A consequence for me personally could be losing my business foundation, my good name and the valuable network I have nurtured and built up during the last 5-10 years. As consequence, I would rather burn in hell, than loose my good reputation and exploit my network in the negative sense…

5 - I have always recommended and continue to gladly recommend talented women who I know personally, or who I know has some qualities that would benefit or contribute to a creation of value in the sense of money or other softer factors such as knowledge, competence etc.
But how can I recommend women who I do not know or have a connection to?

Therefore, you’re not just asking me for 20-30 minutes for free, a recommendation, a board position, an e-mail list of 10.000 names – you’re asking me for days… and years of work.

Anyway, when I receive a request that reads “free work” I always write a nice e-mail back saying: “Sure I would love to help you guys out – this is my price!”

I always write what my price is and I always smile when they say I’m too expensive. And then I answer: “I have no ambition to be the cheapest – I am determined to be the best.” And I’m seriously indifferent if they call someone who is second best.
I don’t work for peanuts. If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys!

If my selling price for a speech or my counselling is really low (a mistake women often make) I might end up contributing to the devaluation of the ” female speakers industry”. In a broader context, I do my fellow sisters a favour (as all females in this industry ought to do) by putting a fair, realistic price on my services which reflects my market value, which again is what clients are willing to pay for my services.

Strangely, this is the point where the phone calls starts coming from the “clients” (if I may call them that), saying that they’re putting this together voluntarily and they can’t exactly pay me more than a couple of bottles of wine (Do you know how many bottles of wine I need before I feel like I’m paid for my work?)

One time, this lady on the phone said that I should look at this “gig” as charity because it would support WOMEN. The word “charity” for women was the buzzword that really, really upset me, because if there’s something I do, day in and day out, it is to support WOMEN which is something I have done for the last 20 years. However, in this case I do not do charity work!!!

Fuck that, I really got offended. I know she probably just had a look on my speaker profile, and that she probably had no idea that she was talking to an WOMEN supporteur extraordinaire=)

Anyway, I just told her no and that I do not work for free (well sometimes I actually do, but then it’s because I can see a reason to do it, like when the guys from Ted.com are calling me or the UN, UNHCR etc – I probably won’t say that they need to pay me (because that would be plain stupid).

I only do free work if I see that the value for me in doing it is larger than the money the organizers would be paying me.

But when I think of it, the reason I don’t want to do it, is that it becomes damaging to my brand if I do. People get the wrong perception of me on stage, or my advices, because if I am not paid, then I know myself enough to know, that I wouldn’t prioritize it – because it’s a free gig. And if I don’t prioritize it, I don’t feel good about it, and if I don’t feel good about it – I suck on stage.
I mean – do you know how much a person can screw up on stage in 20-30 minutes?
Add that the audience is normally merciless if you start screwing up.

One thing I think conference organizers could do, is to get permission from all the participants that the speakers are allowed to e-mail them afterwards. Thereby enlarging the speakers’ database and at the same time telling the audience that the speaker is doing the speech for free. Another way out would be listing the “free speakers” as sponsors in the conference program. Actually stating they are doing it for free. So make it transparent that your speakers are working for free! If they are.

If you want help or get free support or advice, try giving something back.
Just DON`T appeal to sister solidarity or quote Mrs. Albright. That is a kind of sister loyalty misunderstood – it’s pure exploitation of other people’s time and competence!

- “There is a special place in hell for women who are exploiting other women’s work and dedication – by expecting services for free” Benja Stig Fagerland

So thank you people for thinking I Rock – but you can’t get me to do things for free (anymore).

ROCK ON!
WOMENOMICS-feminist DJ, Benja Stig Fagerland

 
A Cup Should Never Be Half Empty!
Onsdag, 28. december 2011 13:02

Starbucks: Is your cup half full or half empty?

"Hi good morning. What can I get for you today?". "Good morning", I replied. "I'll have a tall Skinny soya Latte please." "Would you care for a pastry to go with that this morning?" "No, Thank you." "Ok, your total comes to £2.90. Thank you."

My latte was made extra hot this cold christmas morning in London on my girl-power christmas shopping trip together with my 2 oldest daughters Vilde Sofie and Alma Kristine (even though I didn't order it that way) so it wasn't until I reached Bond Street was when I was able to take my first sip of my coffee. I frowned. They didn't use soy milk! I pulled the cup's sleeve down to see if the instructions were there and they were. I took another sip and I was sure my latte was not made with soy milk. Feeling frustrated that they still could not get my drink right.

And this morning, I made up my mind to go back to Starbucks and demand, in a nice way of course, for them to get my drink straight. It's not just getting what I paid for, it's standing up for my right as a loyal patron of their establishment!

I went inside. The girl behind the counter had switched stations with the guy who made my order. I got her attention and with a smile, I told her that my drink was not made with soy milk. She apologized profusely, took the lid off to see if there was any foam, and sure enough, the cup was filled with milk, just not soy. She apologized again and I told her it was okay. She started to make my drink. She whispered something to the manager and the manager nodded. The girl promised it will take only a minute. I nodded. After a short while, I was given a fresh cup of latte, made my way. She also handed me a voucher for a free drink on my next visit. I sincerely said thank you. The manager apologized as well and bade me a good day. I waved and said, "You, too!"

Inside the taxi, I tested my coffee's temperature. Just right. Ahhh, soy! I looked at the voucher and the front cover had a cut-out coffee cup that was filled half-way. Inside, when opened, is a picture of a coffee cup filled to the top and in big letters it read: "A cup should never be half empty." It also said something to the effect that they were sorry my experience was less than wonderful and to enjoy a cup on them the next time I visit and they hoped my next visit will be a good one. Now that's customer service, I thought to myself and drove off to go shopping togejter with my girls.

Before getting out of the taxi, I re-read the caption: A cup should never be half empty. Hence, the inspiration behind this article.

There is a lesson to be learned from this experience. The caption not only says that Starbucks is committed to providing stellar customer service and that they value their customers, but it also says a lot about how we should live our lives, how we should treat ourselves in order to get what we want in life. Think about it for a minute. Ponder the words and let them sink into your consciousness. Say the words slowly and savor what it truly means. A CUP SHOULD NEVER BE HALF EMPTY.

What it means to me: This tells me to be optimistic about life, to view the cup as being half full rather than pessimistically view it as half empty. It validates my belief to be grateful for all the blessings I currently have rather than dwell on the things I don't have. Having handed the voucher also signifies that I should stand up for my rights. If someone does you wrong, whether intentional or not, speak up!
Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone!

Although we may not have control over what life throws our way, we can control the direction we want to go. Treat yourself with respect because in the end, you will only have yourself to stand up for what you believe in. No one else will do this for you because no one knows you better than you know yourself. You know what you want and you know what you need to do to get whatever it is you desire.

Your cup = your life = your cup of life, should be filled with things (i.e. beliefs, culture, religion or whatever is pleasing to you), events and people that contribute to your well-being and are helpful in achieving your maximum potential. Your cup of life should be overflowing with the best things life has to offer. Don't settle for anything less. When you see your cup starts to get low, work on filling it back up again. You have whatever it takes to keep your cup full. You have whatever it takes to live your life to the fullest. Trust in yourself. YOU ARE YOUR BEST ALLY! Be loyal to your friends and family, passion, but be loyal to yourself first and foremost. Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone.

Lessons can be learned just about anywhere and just about everything has a lesson to teach. Be observant and before you dismiss an event, take a few minutes to analyze what life wants to teach you. You'd be surprised what lessons you can pick up just by watching the sky or ducks flying south for the winter, or babies who are learning to walk for the first time, and so on.
Open your mind and heart to all the possibilities and you, too, will begin to see your cup as half full, if not overflowing.

Happy and prosperous 2012.  
May you’re cup never be half empty.

 
A Cup Should Never Be Half Empty!
Onsdag, 28. december 2011 12:28

"Hi good morning. What can I get for you today?". "Good morning", I replied. "I'll have a tall Skinny soya Latte please." "Would you care for a pastry to go with that this morning?" "No, Thank you." "Ok, your total comes to $2.90 at the window. Thank you."

My latte was made extra hot this morning in London on a girl-power Christmas shopping trips together with my 2 daughters (even though I didn't order it that way) so it wasn't until I reached downtown was when I was able to take my first sip of my coffee. I frowned. They didn't use soy milk! I pulled the cup's sleeve down to see if the instructions were there and they were. I took another sip and I was sure my latte was not made with soy milk. Feeling frustrated that they still could not get my drink right.

And this morning, I made up my mind to go back to Starbucks and demand, in a nice way of course, for them to get my drink straight. It's not just getting what I paid for, it's standing up for my right as a loyal patron of their establishment!

I went inside. The girl behind the counter had switched stations with the guy who made my order. I got her attention and with a smile, I told her that my drink was not made with soy milk. She apologized profusely, took the lid off to see if there was any foam, and sure enough, the cup was filled with milk, just not soy. She apologized again and I told her it was okay. She started to make my drink. She whispered something to the manager and the manager nodded. The girl promised it will take only a minute. I nodded. After a short while, I was given a fresh cup of latte, made my way. She also handed me a voucher for a free drink on my next visit. I sincerely said thank you. The manager apologized as well and bade me a good day. I waved and said, "You, too!"

Inside the taxi, I tested my coffee's temperature. Just right. Ahhh, soy! I looked at the voucher and the front cover had a cut-out coffee cup that was filled half-way. Inside, when opened, is a picture of a coffee cup filled to the top and in big letters it read: "A cup should never be half empty." It also said something to the effect that they were sorry my experience was less than wonderful and to enjoy a cup on them the next time I visit and they hoped my next visit will be a good one. Now that's customer service, I thought to myself and drove off to go shopping togejter with my girls.

Before getting out of the taxi, I re-read the caption: A cup should never be half empty. Hence, the inspiration behind this article.

There is a lesson to be learned from this experience. The caption not only says that Starbucks is committed to providing stellar customer service and that they value their customers, but it also says a lot about how we should live our lives, how we should treat ourselves in order to get what we want in life. Think about it for a minute. Ponder the words and let them sink into your consciousness. Say the words slowly and savor what it truly means. A CUP SHOULD NEVER BE HALF EMPTY.

What it means to me: This tells me to be optimistic about life, to view the cup as being half full rather than pessimistically view it as half empty. It validates my belief to be grateful for all the blessings I currently have rather than dwell on the things I don't have. Having handed the voucher also signifies that I should stand up for my rights. If someone does you wrong, whether intentional or not, speak up!

Although we may not have control over what life throws our way, we can control the direction we want to go. Treat yourself with respect because in the end, you will only have yourself to stand up for what you believe in. No one else will do this for you because no one knows you better than you know yourself. You know what you want and you know what you need to do to get whatever it is you desire.

Your cup = your life = your cup of life, should be filled with things (i.e. beliefs, culture, religion or whatever is pleasing to you), events and people that contribute to your well-being and are helpful in achieving your maximum potential. Your cup of life should be overflowing with the best things life has to offer. Don't settle for anything less. When you see your cup starts to get low, work on filling it back up again. You have whatever it takes to keep your cup full. You have whatever it takes to live your life to the fullest. Trust in yourself. YOU ARE YOUR BEST ALLY! Be loyal to your friends and family, but be loyal to yourself first and foremost.

Lessons can be learned just about anywhere and just about everything has a lesson to teach. Be observant and before you dismiss an event, take a few minutes to analyze what life wants to teach you. You'd be surprised what lessons you can pick up just by watching the sky or ducks flying south for the winter, or babies who are learning to walk for the first time, and so on.
Open your mind and heart to all the possibilities and you, too, will begin to see your cup as half full, if not overflowing.

Wishing you a warm, wonderful and Happy New Year.

May you’re your cup never be half empty!

 
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